*Article ni aku copy dari blog kawan aku .Syazwani Simpson yang kat dalam header aku (rambut panjang) .soo enjoy!
What do you do when someone scolds you?It may be your parents, teachers or even friends who scold you.The first thing you feel is unhappiness.You feel uncomfortable.You don`t like what is going on.
You don`t like the situation because you feel you are being attacked.No one is actually hitting you but the words hurt you.You feel you are being scolded - you - the person.Sometimes you feel very small because you feel someone is scolding you.They may say,"How can you be so stupid?" or "Can`t you be more careful?" or "Don`t you know anything?".To deal with your feelings,learn to look at what is really happening.Notice the word "you" in each of the above questions.They seem to point to the person - which is you.What they actually mean is : your action is stupid or dropping that plate or spilling the tea is clumsy.They mean the action is not right , not you.
oh yeahh for your information,aku tak selalu update blog sebab kalo abang falah(bakal abang ipar aku) tak bawak laptop,tak online la aku.hehehe kbye bye bye!
